Fact: This is our decision and we are marvellously happy with it.
I don't really see my family unit as two adults and "just" one child; I see it as a trio.
I have never felt pressured to have another child. However, I sometimes get the question: "Do you think you'll have another one?". This question is often asked by friends or acquaintances that have more than one kid. I quickly and sincerely answer "No. One is good for us." I sometimes add that by having another one would impede on my well-being, robbing me from my imperative "Jen-time"and adding stress to my relationship. I don't feel like we're incomplete or that I'm missing out. Simon and I are happy with our situation and we have so much fun with Margot.
On another note, I don't believe that Margot is being "denied" of a sibling. She has three (almost four) cousins, two whom she sees regularly and feels comfortable (sometimes too comfortable) acting like a sister when around them.
Indeed, such a happy trio! You guys have got it sussed ;)
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Great post - it can sometimes be surprisingly difficult to know exactly what you need. Your trio seems rather awesome and complete!
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Love your trio, and your commitment to do what is right for you! And I lovelovelove your smiling faces. What a beautiful family.
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I *have* felt pressure, both externally and self-imposed, to expand my family, for all the reasons you state. I am quite happy with just my little boy, but it's an ongoing debate for me, and I'll figure out the answer sometime or other...or I'll get too old, whatever comes first!!! :)
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